I suggested the joint account but my wife said "not too sure about that". I've left it with my wife to figure out now. I'll just keep paying for whatever needs paying in the meantime.

I remember when I started out DBing that being conscious of your actions was half the battle. It's disappointing that I lost that consciousness but I feel more aware of what's going on this time even though I've slipped and need to start over.

Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014