Thanks for the links cadet.

Turns out my ex has been upset with me since the last time she was here(that sat. night when she stayed til 2:30). I noticed her texts were one word answers and she seemed distant. I actually didnt really think much of it-is that detaching?!? On that sat. I made a sarcastic crack(I was doing so good eliminating my sarcasm) about the time she threw a plate past my head. Turns out that really hurt her but she hid that from me that night. She says she doesn't want to argue anymore. Fair enough. She even told me she was crying at the gym the next day because she was so upset by it. I tried validating by keeping quiet and apologized.

Anyway, today she called me at work to discuss today's plans. It was her night with s3. I was busy and texted her I'd call her back. I called when I got home. She seemed really happy and talkative. She was at work and let 2 or 3 phone calls go to the answering machine. She must've talked for a good 30-45 minutes. She mentioned coming over after work and hanging out here with s3. I told her I was cool if he spent the night here again. I had to go to the grocery store after I picked up s3 from daycare and she offered to come and help out. So I picked her up from work and we got some groceries then headed back to my place. We made dinner and that's when she told me why her texts have been so short. I guess when she's mad she only replies with one word answers. Weird. Anyway, she then started talking about our relationship and she wanted me to know that she tried. I've heard that before. I just listened even though I wanted to say that she didnt try hard enough. So we ate dinner and she showed me stuff on her phone(YouTube video), and she talked a lot again. Random stuff, family, friends, work, her latest art projects etc.

She ended up having a shower here again while I played with s3. She wanted to play rockband after she got out of the shower so we did that. She seemed happy which was nice. She also talked about how she doesn't want to do anything this weekend so she would like to have s3 Saturday and Sunday. I agree as usual. I'm sure she will do some flip flopping by the time the weekend rolls around though.

Anyway, I've been keeping busy with my usual stuff.


Me-35 Com law-28
S-3
T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu
1st bu- 2/2012
Rec-4/2013
2nd bu-10/2013
IC-2 yrs(anger issues)
MC- 5 mnths-fail
OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14
New OM ~10/4/14