Documenting:

Had our family dinner tonight. It went really well! D12 ran up to him and gave him the hugest hug and kiss I have ever seen her give! So cute! (Remember, she has Aspergers, so showing emotion at all is a big deal). He enjoyed it and was surprised by it, too. BONUS: the sushi place we went to has 50% off sushi Monday-Thursday. Making note of that!!!!! Yessssssssssssss!

He hung out at the house after. Very casual. It was nice. He is staying here with the dogs while I'm out of town this weekend.

SIDE NOTE: he mentioned he was offered a trade for his Sportster (my Sportser;) ) the guy wants to trade him an old RV with a plot of land on a lake north of us. This has the potential to be a game-changer::::: his toxic friends own property several hours south of here- they aren't going to hang out at his new place up north. This was a point of contention leading up to S. He would go out of town with toxic friends, I was not allowed because they did not like me (and he wouldn't stick up for me). This new development could put a wedge in between them. Or not- it's just " interesting" wink

Also: BIG DEAL------> he has made contact with his estranged D18. They stopped speaking 3 years ago, and that's about the time he started getting a bit distant, in general. This is different for him, hoping it means he's coming out of his fog a bit.

Big night, lots of "interesting" things... Let's see what happens.


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5