my living arrangements are a little complex at the moment. I am currently living in a large place until it sells. Kind of like house sitting. But, this is temporary. I am here until I figure out my financial situation with H....its major progress that he is considering purchasing again "with" me ... this time!

So, tonight after work he suggested that we go investigate a new computer purchase. I said "ya maybe, let me check in with DD"... so I checked in, and said "sure, lets go". .... it was what it was. Shopping for new appliances too as he is "tired" of our old TV and fridge too. However, he did state that he was making disposable purchases, like the fridge would be an inexpensive beer fridge, elsewhere. And the TV.. can be relocated. It was a few hours, back now... but, disappointed that there was not a coffee or chat or offer for dinner, etc.

Trying to keep hope but manage expectation... tuff stuff. I did not try to manipulate or ask if he would like to go for dinner or beer afterwards. This ^^^ is SO NOT LIKE ME !!! UGH!!!


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)