ditto on all the above. I'm having issues now with W acting out or dropping out. I tried to get things better and made it worse. My D16 even called me out on it. I tried to "explain" W's non contact with her since the accident (minimal contact I should say) and she said, ....Why d you DO THAT DAD???...you give her the benefit of the doubt. she is NOT WHO YOU THINK SHE IS....SHE SHREDDED YOU TO US FOR YEARS...SHE"S NOT YOUR FRIEND....ouch


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14