ditto on all the above. I'm having issues now with W acting out or dropping out. I tried to get things better and made it worse. My D16 even called me out on it. I tried to "explain" W's non contact with her since the accident (minimal contact I should say) and she said, ....Why d you DO THAT DAD???...you give her the benefit of the doubt. she is NOT WHO YOU THINK SHE IS....SHE SHREDDED YOU TO US FOR YEARS...SHE"S NOT YOUR FRIEND....ouch
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14