I just read the fish story and I so feel for your D. She has had some uncomfortable change in her life and your h totally messed up this situation. Again, sorry to hijack. ( I feel kind of feisty today ) when my D 'a beloved hamster died, h actually said to her "at least your mother will be the one dealing with all of this now." What a comfort this was to my D who didn't know her dad was moving over her beloved hamster she made clothes for and built a play castle. Ugh. This from the same man who actually cried during " The Notebook."
I agree it's a good idea for your kids to find someone to talk to. I do think even if you keep the door of communication open, they internalize so much. Take care! You are doing great:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
