Our marriage has been lacking intimacy and closeness for a while now. My youngest is almost 2. The last time he left our youngest had just turned 2. I know he probably feels left out by the kids. He even mentioned that he knows I love the kids more than anyone else and he would never take them from me.

With that said, he isn't acting any different towards me now. He is just as interactive and polite as usual. It's so strange to know he has checked out but things are the same.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month