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Thanks Bunches and Hs. Yeah my thoughts are on what she thinks. I know I have to stop that. Have to catch myself when being nice. Today I had a couple coupons for a free lunch at a sub shop and asked her if she wanted me to pick her up lunch too ...she said no thanks and I then thought why did I even bother asking. When she came home from work I was pouring me a glass of wine ...so I offered to pour her a glass too ...she said sure. But should I be doing these things? Like I mentioned in previous post, I still bring her morning coffee and pack her and kids lunch in the morning ...she takes kids to school in the morning and heads to the office; I work from home so I have always been doing this. The therapist/marriage counselor we used to see together but that I now see alone said I should not tell her to get her own coffee and pack her own lunch if what I want is to reconcile the marriage ...what's your take on this? I'm very interested in your thoughts. Thanks!