2 weeks ago he agreed to give this marriage a chance... Work on things together. Now he is saying that he felt bad doing that. Like he was leading me on. Since he knew he want to work on things. He says he has already decided that this isn't what either of us needs. That we both deserve more. We both deserve someone who loves us. Yet he doesn't want to move out yet, he is still wearing his band, and he has stated that we should go on our previously planned outting because "that's how things start"

What do I do with this situation?


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month