Good luck with your decision. You need to do what is best for yourself. It is so much easier to give advice than to take it. How are the kids handling the separation/divorce. Is there another W involved that you know of? I would think they would need their mom more than ever right now and they are used to their dad travelling. Will work allow him to come back and visit or will you be sending the kids to him for long periods?
W-38 H-42 T-11 M-8 C-6,2,6 months BD-Oct 1 2013 DFiled-Jan 6 2014 Went Dark - April 4, 2014