Thanks HS and Unbidden. I got it! I continue to be calm and just deflect/absorb her negativity. She complained that she hasn't even been able to get a good night's sleep in our bed let alone e having to go to another room. So I was thinking to buy a Sonos speaker to put by her bedside so she could listen to some soothing music that may help her sleep. Am I nuts? Is that pursuing ...
I just thought this through ...I'm not doing anything material for her ...my advances on our vacation were rejected and even a kiss on her forehead it met with angry words ...i must accept that she is repulsed with me and I don't think doing anything at this point will change that - right?
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
