Thanks HS and Unbidden. I got it! I continue to be calm and just deflect/absorb her negativity. She complained that she hasn't even been able to get a good night's sleep in our bed let alone e having to go to another room. So I was thinking to buy a Sonos speaker to put by her bedside so she could listen to some soothing music that may help her sleep. Am I nuts? Is that pursuing ...


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14