I agree that women like strong and confident men and, I am a woman. However, I went through a bitter divorce years ago with a man who wouldn't leave the marital bed or bedroom during the entire divorce. He slept with me every night even after filing vile pleadings in our divorce case and made me feel implicitly threatened. It was entirely abusive-- and it went on for nine long months. I took to taking sleeping pills every night in case he tried to kill me. I figured that I wouldn't wake up to witness it. No joke. (I did try to get him out but he kept lying to the attorneys etc.-- another long story). Anyway, if you march back into the bedroom it is going to be very threatening and upsetting to her. I would be. This does not mean that you would be wrong for doing so. It just means that it will cause problems. Do I think that she would respect you more for it? Not on this. So my advice would be to pick a bedroom and then just sleep there until you work out another agreement between the two of you. I don't think, however, that you should avoid her at all. You made what you thought was a good decision last night under the circumstances so OWN it. Just go about your business calm and happy. If she's still twisted up about it that's on HER. You can't be perfect so just be yourself. You got this.
