Also, Day 19 of no discussions turning into an argument/fight. This week has probably been the most trying in that regard.
I'm pretty sure I found out why she was being pissy with me on Sunday. Long story short, she got caught in a bit of a lie. It's not a HUGE thing but she was kind of playing both sides of the coin with a couple friends of ours (husband & wife). W said friend said something, I was talking to her husband about it not long after we separated who told his wife and his wife said she never said that....blah, blah, blah. Well, friends wife texted my W that she didn't appreciate her lying to me about something she said (her husband called me to apologize and didn't mean to get me into trouble. Told him no harm, no foul......women are crazy).
So W was mad at me that I told him what she said even though she was the one that lied. Haven't talked to W at all about it but CLEARLY that's what her issue was with me. Again, going back to her comments on Sunday about her having to be careful what she says to me. The stars lined up WAYYY to well for that not to be true.
Which makes me laugh. And W knows not to even bring it up because she knows she's wrong. She lied and is mad that I facilitated her getting caught in her own lie (even though I didn't even mean to....I thought she was just telling me the truth).
Me: 33 W: 27 S: 5 D: 2 Bomb: 1/2/14 First Separation: 1/25/14 MC: 2/7/14 (one time only) Moved Back in: 3/31/14 W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14 Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14