I know, we get all of this advice here - it's not about you, it's about him. Don't take it personally. Make your life happy. And we do need to do those things. But the bottom line is, it just plain svcks and is all so hard to swallow.
I am really not familiar with the ins and outs of MLC, but from what I do know, your H's behavior isn't unusual, and could at some point turn around.
I think you have the right idea, letting go and just doing the best you can for you and your kids. I know you probably don't feel this way, but I can tell just from your posts here that you are doing an awesome job of this.
Hang in there.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
