I'm back again 4 years later

[Duds3]

Hang in there and prayers your way. Similar situation here but W has filed for D and seems to be moving on with giving it any thoughts. Seems to have the same mindset you described in your H, wants to be to come and go as she pleases with no one to be attached too. Sad in all regards. My W told me before the happiest se has ever been in her life was when both of us were giving to our R and we were at our highest point. Now she's sayin she just wants to be happy and not be the miserable W that just stays in a M to stay in one. Says being by herself is what will make her happy.

I'm new here but don't bring up R talk. If I could do DBing over again I know the outcome would be different. When you bring up R talk it all is them to vent and say negative things freely and without consequence. I realize now my W might have never said anything about our R if I wouldn't have brought the subject up. Not sure if her not talking would have been a good thing or bad thing. I suppose it would be better than things are now.

Hang in there and do your best