Believe none of what they say and only half of what they do, right? I shouldn't pressure for another MC even though my IC thinks I should then? I don't believe MC will do any good until the affair is over, and despite what my W says- I don't believe it is. I am just having a tough time trying to detach while in-house. It seems things go well for a couple weeks, then she's cold again. DBing is so tough because I want to cause some conflict and do a temp. check. I don't want a D, but I hate this limbo.