"I am wondering if I should just be going to my room when wife gets home from work and just steering clear from her for a few days. Suggestions?"
This^^^ does not sound very strong and confident. Women like a strong and confident man. Not a controller. The master bedroom is yours. When I went back into mine exw got really pissed. Stay in the room, if she is the one who wants out, she will need to make other arrangements. You cannot walk on eggshells for the rest of your life hoping to not piss her off. If you breath she will get pissy, they will rationalize everything to justify their actions. Make the master bedroom yours again, lock the door at night, it's your space and you need privacy.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
