For what it is worth....the only thing that you should be focused on right now is YOUR daughter. She is 4, the more time she spends away from you, the more time she will not have with dad.
I think I know you pretty well. I think you are still as Mach mentioned focused on your W and OM. I understand it but it needs to stop. F*ck the car, f*ck the house, protect yourself as best you can and then go get YOUR daughter. Serious man, F*ck the green card, F*ck everything except how you can be a better dad.
I'm tired of reading about car, I know...it is a audi, I get it. A nice car - but F it!
Your D has spent 4 years aways from her Dad. It is about time that YOU change that. As I mentioned to you...what is your plan, how do you see this working, how do you plan to have your daughter in your life?
And yes, I know your w is moving soon.
BUT
I have to be honest.......I think you are waiting.
I think you really hope that when she moves....she will come back...
That when she moves she will change her MIND.
She may...she may not.
Who knows BUT do you really want to WAIT to see how this will impact your Daughter.
I'm starting to wonder IF, you are more concerned about your W (who by the way I know if very attractive) and less about your daughter.
FTR, I get finances, I know you are not working right now.
Me? I would drive my as* down to where ex lives, grab my daughter and say....she is gonna spend the next month with me since I am home doing nothing!
You know how to reach me
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
