Wow weeee, Jon, I am sorry to hear. That is some of the craziest stuff I've seen on here to be honest.

It sounds like you did what you could do. TBH, I wouldn't have even given her the $1,000 if she was proceeding with the dissolution. She clearly does not value YOU or the marriage, she's all about herself and extremely selfish and narcissistic. Or she's just a nut. Either way, it sounds like she did you a favor.

So are you living together? I don't think you moved back together, right? Do you think you are really done this time?

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012