recalling our convo of Sunday afternoon. H has been doing some thinking. H is really depressed living upstairs of the house he now shares with his mom. He really wants to spend approx $5000 to put in hardwood floors, new fridge, island with fireplace, and new TV. He feels he will be there for at least a year (because he cannot see clearly through the mess of property, etc). He could tell my displeasure, and then stated what the mediator suggested. That he would invest in another house 50/50 with me. I will have to move eventually/soon as this rental house sells. Likely in spring. I don't want to move back in with parents. He also mentioned how he could move his aunt into our old living space (upstairs) to help her financially and then that provides him with an "out" from living with his mom, continually. He will still have to maintain the property while organizing it for resale.
.... at least he has been "thinking". He has included me in his plan.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
