Lois,

Why are you trying to negotiate with your H? Deep down inside are you hoping that he will see how reasonable you are and want to come back? If not, then what is your reason for trying to broker a deal that may not be in YOUR best interest? FTR, I get trying to save money on attny fees - I do - however, at what cost.

KML is spot on. Please read what she has posted.


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