Eek. This is why I chickened out of asking about switching rooms yesterday.. I'm nervous about the reaction and undoing any work that has been done! But maybe if I approach it as a conversation and ask for H's opinion it will go more smoothly than just doing it without discussion.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final