Yes, lingering is being too easy and manipulative, but so was rushing the other day too. This is tuff stuff, trying to balance. Its not up to me to keep the momentum. Its up to him to do the work, if thats what he wants. Its up to him to salvage the relationship, if thats what he wants.
How will I know if he is cake eating?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
