I think that is exactly where my mind was going this morning. I was doom and gloom when I woke up but his "That's how things start anyway" made me a little brighter. I don't want to get too much hope built up though!!

I think stepping back, re-reading DB, following the steps, and lightening the mood around here will be a good thing.

We are in separate bedrooms and have been for a while now. It started when my youngest was a baby and he started nursing school. He didn't want to wake us up so he slept in another room. We recently moved. Now he has his bedroom on the 2nd floor and his own bathroom. I have the mast on the 1st floor. So we are already living separately in a way.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month