Just posting to update my thread as I haven't posted or updated for quite a while.
I got back from my weeks holiday in a hot country, at the end of January, and I felt on top of the world, really postive & ready to move forward & let go of the past.
I submitted my "Answer' in the defence of my wife's divorce petition and since then have just been concentrating on feeling good & enjoying life. I have put my relationship with my wife out of mind mostly.
The court hearing regarding the divorce is tomorrow. I don't know what to expect but I am just going to take it in my stride, turn up & give it my best, then accept & surrender to whatever the outcome is.
I received a letter from my wife's solicitor yesterday asking me to move out of our family home within the next 7 days otherwise my wife will have no other choice than to apply for an 'occupation order' & 'non-molestation order'. They have probably timed it to arrive 2 days before the divorce hearing purposely in order to get to me, I suspect.
Anyway that's my current situation, what will be will be, life goes on.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014