He is going to live here a while. He is unwilling to say we are working on things but just a few minutes ago we were talking about this week. I asked him how we are supposed to relate to each other through this "live in separation"...do we watch movies together? Do we do things as individuals living in the same house? He said we could still do things together. We had planned on going on a hike this Sunday. I mentioned that. He said we could still go. I kinda looked at him funny and he said "That's how things start anyway." So. Whatever that means.

I am bringing DB to work with me tonight to start reading. Any pointers on a live in separation of sorts? He isn't moving out. He doesn't want to work on it but he doesn't seem totally against the idea of going through the motions.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month