Yes, on a occasional basis, but they talk every day. He lives a few hours away. She won't classify the relationship or admit it is anything, and refuses to believe it affects us in any way
From our sessions in counselling, and the talks we have had, she felt like I never listened to her, and we didn't have the same vision for life. She is/ was overwhelmed with our three children, and she feels like we don't bring out the best in each other the last few months, and she's skeptical we ever can ( not surprising as she is involved with OM right now