Won't stop affair. Wants divorce now.

[Mach1]

I'm honestly not focusing on what she's doing anymore.

This ^^^ is the first line from the below post....

I'm honestly not focusing on what she's doing anymore I'm working on me and trying to be strong for my daughter. She's deep in this and nothing I say at this point can stop it. It's a waiting game at this point. I'm taking the time to take care of business and working on me. She already made it clear that our marriage is over and I need to move on with my life. Her family no longer talk to me or include me in there weekly group text. This is my opportunity to work on me, either for the good or bad.

If you aren't focusing on her, then why are HER actions changing the person that you say you want to be ?

Why are you allowing what SHE does, to affect what YOU need to do ?

And if you aren't focusing on her anymore, then why do the words "she" "her" "they" "OM" come up so much ???



These are your last 2 posts...

None. No bitterness other than disappointment. I went through a lot and still dealing with same BS. Any man will honestly be disappointed. I'm just working on doing me and focusing all my attention on my daughter. I can only control me and not what she doing. Our relationship is different. I don't get to see her every day or every week. I see her every month and that's it. She get to see OM everyday. They work together and reside in same city. I can not compete with that. We are talking about relationship affair here now. Her family knows about OM already. I no longer have any communication with them anymore. I've my beautiful daughter. She's my joy and everything.

I am confused about some of the "her" and "she" language above.

Are you speaking of your Daughter ? Or your spouse ??

I know. I really have to think deep about that one. I just feel bad that I allow her to do so much to me. She's now changing the story and turning herself to the victim. I guess she need to justify her actions

So tell me, if you aren't focusing on her anymore, why I am seeing those words so many times....???