update: W continues to text and try to call D16. I stepped out of it. I make it messy when I get in it. I told D16 its her Relationship to work with W.

Interesting that W acts almost like a 'jilted lover'. not sure how else to put that. She is pursuing daughter. I just can't see if it will be more harmful or helpful.

The more I see, the less I like. Very unhealthy.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14