Last night the kids wanted me to sleep with them and they sometimes have been sleeping together in the master bedroom in our bed where my W has been sleeping (I have been in the guest room). My wife was out will her friends so I slept there. I put my pillow there and put hers in my daughter's room thinking she could just sleep there; it is a queen bed too and she has slept there in the past. Well i guess she got home at 11 or so and said she made so much noise but i wouldnt get up - i said well why didnt you just wake me? Well this morning my wife blew up saying I have no empathy and just think about myself. I guess maybe it was wrong of me ...I didn't think it was a big deal but W says that's what's wrong with me :-/ Ash Wednesday today so this morning I mentioned to the W that I will be there with her if I can move a work call i have scheduled; she told me not to sit with her or her folks ...this will be the first time in 20+ years as we have always sat together ...i will respect her wishes ...thoughts?
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
