Jeez, I messed that up bad. Because I'm not really ready to push the envelope and force h into a decision, and mentioning a future divorce status is going to make him react - either in anger, or in further acceptance with our status. What it will NOT do is make him say 'no, I don't want to be divorced next year!' And I know that, but I said it anyways. Or maybe I wanted to slap him with the financial reality. But he knows it without me pushing, and the news won't sink in any better coming from me.
Or maybe I wanted to slap him with the financial reality. But he knows it without me pushing, and the news won't sink in any better coming from me.
