I just wanted to jump in and agree with gabbysmom about the 5k and other fun events. I don't consider myself a runner, but I'm signed up for a ton of mud runs, foam and obstacle runs, and regular races this year. A lot of them will let you run for free if you volunteer at registration or another area before the event.

And a lot of major cities have massage schools that offer really low rates so their students can get their practice hours in. Here it's usually $25 for an hour and they often have 1/2 price specials, and you can't tip the students so it's very affordable.

And going to church is good too, especially if you've got a friend to go with. At the very least it's an hour of not thinking about your sitch.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13