Call me a bit vindictive, but knowing that W is going to stop by the house while I'm at work one of these days, it actually inspired me to move all of her items to the garage. So I've put almost everything of hers from the house out there. I also took the time to print out about 40 pictures taken since bombdrop of me having fun around the city with friends and with my dog. I needed to personalize the house to me anyway, and finally took the time to do it.
I had the day off, met a friend for lunch, and have a breakfast date tomorrow morning. Things are going well, I'm fine as long as I don't see or hear from the STBXW. My lawyer should return from her honeymoon soon and that's when the "fun" begins. Not looking forward to property negotiations, since we both think we're keeping the house at this point. Isn't possession 9/10ths of the law? At least my keeping the house, I provide for paying out her portion of the equity, her proposal afforded me no such thing. Other than the house, I have enough furniture that was mine prior to marriage I won't lose out too much.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
