Won't stop affair. Wants divorce now.

[planet]

I completely agree with you. She's spending all her time with OM and leaving our daughter with babysitter multiple times a week.

WAS don't often put others first.

She claimed she's happy now and not thinking about our marriage anymore.

She's being honest with you.
It may or may not be the whole truth.

She's no longer a factor. My time to talk to her is not now. I'm patiently waiting for the day the wax on her face is magically erased and reality set in that am long gone. I honestly don't understand why a woman will fall for a guy that called her names on social media. I guess she's getting all the fun she want with a guy that called her names on Fb. I've done my part to save her but she doesn't want to be saved. She's no longer my problem.

Waiting for reality to set in? Are you serious?
Is there bitterness somewhere?
I'm not saying it's wrong to feel that way but acknowledging it and letting go speeds up your own personal healing.

Look, you are still very early in your sitch.
Have you even begin to look at your own problems and your part in the failure of your M?
Have you start forgiving yourself?