I'm in, wife's out

[LFC1170]

trc, the only thing different in my sitch is my w declared she wanted a d. It went like this...

Day 1: asked for a trial S
Day 2: asked for full blown S
Day 3: BD asked for full divorce

so I went from trial sep to divorce in 3 days!

That said, aside from no sex or touching whatsoever, our daily lives are exactly the same. In public you would think we are married. I make all the money for food and shelter, she contributes nothing except cooking and cleaning (occasionally). We deal with our son equally.

She has had all the paperwork for almost 2 years and hasn't filled out one page. She has bought clothes, Ipod speakers, and a car with virtually no money before she puts into saving money for the d she so desperately wants. If she was still having sex I would think no way she would go through with it and basically ignore the d proclamations.

As it is she can wake up tomorrow and say y'know I decided I want to stay. That easy. I have no idea what she is thinking but I feel that if we can just open up and communicate this can be avoided but she's following the WAS script to the letter.