The other day my w and I went food shopping when we saw bottles of vitamin water on sale. I drink vw zero but she saw all vw as the same, so when she started gathering vw (which had 25g sugar) as opposed to zero (which had 0g of sugar) I politely pointed it out to her.
me: thats vw. I drink vw zero w: what's the difference? me: vw has 20+g of sugar and zero doesn't and im trying to lose weight. w: (laughing) Oh! I didn't notice. they all look the same. m: good thing I was here then or you would have bought the wrong ones w: (stares at me w/ hate in her eyes) I wouldn't have done that!!!
Oh! Oh! what did I do now? WTF!
In my mind though im saying "because when u go shopping u buy all of your things and F*** UP! the things I need and your only comment is "who cares? eat it anyway It won't kill you!"
How disrespectful! What if the tables were turned and she sent me out for her favorite Pistachio ice cream and I came back with her disliked cookies-n-cream (which I would NEVER do and have NEVER done) and I said "who cares? eat it anyway it won't kill you!"
what would you say then "wifey?!"
I hate having to be made to feel like Im walking on egg shells all the time. She can let loose her feelings and I have to check mine. She doesn't acknowledge my "gift" of cleaning off her car of snow but then asks me to help her figure out the tire pressure in her car???
You NEED me or you DON'T? I don't get it!
Bad day. Pet gerbil died.
Me 43 W 43 S 10 (Special Needs) M: 14 yrs T: 18 yrs Bomb: 09/16/12 Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???