Is it too creepy to make the shopping with me? Me buying my way into a few hours with d15 (soon 16)? Typically W and d15 would shop together. Just giving her money or a gift certificate seems impersonal, the last thing I want.
Luke
Her birthday is coming. Why not take her out to pick an "X" that she wants? There's nothing "creepy" about that if it isn't lingerie.
My h has taken our d's clothes and computer shopping lately (due to my leg surgery) and he spends more than I would.... (Which I think they know...)
Anyhow, they all seemed happy when they came home and each did share things with h that they had not shared earlier. It was a positive.
Surely with your d's birthday coming, it makes total sense. Same goes for any electronics that she might need, given your background. 16 is a special birthday in our country ("Sweet 16", etc) so,
NO it's not buying her. It's buying her a gift and celebrating her.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
(Which I think they know...) 