At least if you cheat in a sexless relationship, the main "marriage" may end. That way you can do it the right way. Cheating your spouse out of sex and intimacy, "because you don't have to do it" is very evil and selfish. It's hurtful to someone a sex life and intimacy was important to.
Sorry, I haven't responded. I went and ran another marathon and was back into recovery and training for the next one in six weeks. I question what you think is "the right way" and how that compares with your view of what would constitute the wrong way. And while I agree it is hurtful (to me) and may even be classifiable as selfish, I doubt it lowers itself to the classification of "very evil." There are many things that I could classify as very evil and this is not one of them.
The Captain
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)
