Your situation is a lousy one, as are most around here. But your h has hurt your d, and I don't see any reason to believe he won't continue doing that.
Like Labug, I'm one of those who is "into therapy". I wish everyone would go for at least a tune up, (if not a major overhaul). I don't see how it can harm your d.
Oh sure, We all know some lousy marriage counseling can harm a marriage, or do it no good.
But could a child psychologist be a bad idea? Honestly, I don't see how. And does the injunction prevent you from seeking medical help for her?
Why would your h oppose it? I'd think it's very revealing if he does.
But we are all here, rooting for you Melissa. And we are rooting for your children too.
(Oh, and as for the "murderous" fish, can he get a reprieve, or at least a transfer?? If he gets another cell mate, let's make sure they're more compatible...)
Sorry if my post ruined your day, but I just felt sick when I read of his interaction. He frightens me, from the point of view of a small girl. Her dad is "the outside world". The father daughter relationship is under rated I think. So maybe your h will read some books about the importance of the Father-daughter relationships...maybe...
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
