I made the mistake of talking to too many people at the beginning of our S.
As I started DBing and I moved home I have 2 friends that I lean on That is it. I have even stopped talking to my family about my sitch. I just want my family to support both of us if we R so that is why I have quit explaining things to them.
I first went to a very close Mutual friend of both of ours hoping she could help out as she spends a decent amount of time with my W. She says my W never brought anything up to her. I find that hard to believe but I was never asking specifically what W was saying just trying to get a feel for her position.
I still talk to this friend because we are close we just don't talk about our sitch at least on my side not sure about W.
As far as I know this friend has never told anybody that I even came to her a frazzled mess and I trust her but it is better just to back off.
She is not taking sides which is awesome and she know how much I love my W and knows that nothing "bad" happened to make us separate. It is just a choice the W made.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
