So, here it goes. That second night was quite interesting. After H left, we socialized some more, then my male friend took his kid home and his wife stayed with me and my other GF. Kids went to do their own partying and we went to a couple of other bars in town. In one of them we were sitting next to a group of guys and one of them was really hitting on me. He was younger and could not grasp that I had an adult son. He gave me lots of compliments and was really trying hard to pick me up. My GF was telling the other one (a mutual friend) that this scenario repeats itself quite often. That out of a few ladies on a girls night out I am always the one who gets the most attention. We laughed a lot, and then left to go to another bar.

In one of the bars we found our kids and H. They were drinking and talking. We stayed away from them. My GFs noticed that H was there by himself. I was curious what happened with his friends. Normally he would be with his regular drinking crowd. After all it was a big event in town and there were lots of people everywhere. My mutual friend said that H’s relationship with his friends seems to be strained. She said that some of the people who he considered to be friends happened to be not exactly a friendship material. They didn’t care about H like he thought they did. Plus, she said that everybody has his/her own life and family.

So, just like the previous two times, H abruptly left. Later my GF dragged us to the strip club next door looking for the kids. We just came inside, walked all the way to the other end and came out. The kids were not there, but guess what, H was. Standing by the bar, all by himself again. Even my GF said that he felt sorry for him. It upset me too. It was not that he was in the strip club, I know he went there before while we were M’d and I didn’t have a problem with it. It is just the fact that he was by himself again. He saw us too. We went by so fast that I didn’t notice what expression he had on his face.

We eventually found our kids and went home.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state