I'm in, wife's out

[trc2009]

I'm happy when I'm there. I'm not sitting there like a bump acting all depressed. I focus on the kids a lot while I'm there and do talk to my W.

But I've found it challenging taking a topic and having a conversation about it. Not about R or M at all. But just a general conversation.

Maybe it's because I told myself after 2/14 to just STFU and defuse the situation. But obviously that won't work for the long-term. At some point I need to be comfortable talking to my W.