Well, before I proceed with the rest of the updates, I want to thank Heather, Job, NLT and Wonka for stopping by.

I did have a great time last weekend. The kids did too. They went back home on Sunday, and I drove on Monday. My son’s GF wanted to stay with me, but I made it clear that I wanted one night for myself. I did take care of them the whole weekend and wanted some time alone.

Job, you are exactly right about H not knowing what to do around everyone. I don’t know if he planned everything ahead. I have a feeling that his behavior was kind of subconscious.

Forgot to mention something about the first night at my friends’ house. I had my dog with me. He was so happy to see H, he was by his side almost all night enjoying the petting and attention. Here, speaking about unconditional love. My dog gave me a big lesson that night. H was also very happy to give the dog some good back scratch. I think he misses him too.

Wonka, I’m curious if you can elaborate why do you see it positive? Well, maybe wait for the rest of the updates first. I’m still trying to process the whole thing and there is a lot of information. I’ve gone through all kinds of different feelings during the weekend. I’m just trying to stay on the course and not get into the expectations game again.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state