Hi, welcome to the boards. You won't find a better group of individuals dedicated to helping you get your marriage on track.

So first of all, is she still actively seeing this guy? What were some things that she was unhappy about in the marriage?

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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