Whoa, Paul. Sorry your W did so much damage the kids could see. That would be the most difficult to overcome. It's a betrayal of sorts. You'll get through it, and your kids will see the correct way to treat people through you. You're doing what needs to be done. Wish there was a fast-forward button...
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5