Working on Divorce Busting every Day!

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My H felt that I never respected him or even cared about his opinion. In the past few days I have started to thank him for things he has done or is doing. For example for cleaning out the garage so one of us can park in there. Makes it easier to keep the kids out of the weather. Me asked of if he was taking our daughter to judo on my day. I has been allowing this. When he said not this week he had a tournament. I just said ok have a great time. Then a few days later asked how it went. Today I told him what a great job he has done in the political arena. (Paraphrasing;)
These are 180s for me as he felt no respect and my misuse opera do was mostly to say negative things about my H to most people. I don't want to be seen as pursuing. I am just trying to go back to at least a friendship we used to have. I believe that got very lost. I need to have no expectations.
Sadly I miss him as my best friend though that has been gone a long time.
I always get positive results from the texts. Should I continue. These are things I truly believe.
On another note I'm reading the 5 love languages. How do u know what the other persons love language is.
Is this what divorce busting is all about?
On the GAL page I was able to teach JA at my daughters class and another class today. I love teaching and it was so much fun to share with kids.