Should I raise my W's mixed emotional responses with her? Or let it go ...I'm just trying to figure out what's up with her. HELP
Let it go. She knows she's confused and in turmoil, she sure doesn't need any reminders about it. She wants empathy instead, she wants her feelings validated. That's why WAS's quit talking to LBS's and start pouring out their feelings to enablers, because enablers don't judge, they just validate and nod and say they understand. THAT is what she wants, not to be addressed like she's crazy.
And you will NEVER figure out what's up with her. She's not even sure. She may act calm and cool on the outside, but inside she's going through a lot right now. It's like a crazy, raging storm with driving rain and ferocious winds. Her words are random projectiles being flung out of that storm, you can't figure that stuff out because there's no logic or reason to it.
