I know! I know! I don't know how your H is, but mine is overly proud of the fact he hasn't been to the dr. In over 10 years. I really don't think he'll go unless it's court-ordered wink lol

A better "fix" for my H would be to get away from his toxic friends. That may be happening on some level, as he has been having disagreements with them as of late (which he tells me for some reason, after he told me they were one of the reasons he left- they had NOTHING positive to say about me after only meeting me a couple times. I'm likable, I assure you. So we can see how fabulous they are. BUT, the OW is in that group, so I think we can see where their point of view may have been a little "skewed")

My H knows the unhappiness is him, he just has no idea how to get away from it!

Geez!!


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5