Unicorns, Big Foot, and the WAS...

[artsy]

I don't know if I want to fix him, or if I just want him to get fixed, if that makes sense- or is there a difference??? He needs professional help, but his ego won't allow that...

And how do I "open up room for change to happen"? I definitely try to control things, especially when someone else is just sitting there afraid to move!!! help me, Bug! Lol. I feel like I'm not going about things the right way, but I don't know how to change it.